Tag Archives: nonviolent communication

It’s All My Fault

I am in the middle of a break-up. At least i think i am. I have little hope left because there doesn’t seem a willingness to ask the tough questions on both sides. This might not be the case. Be … Continue reading

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The Face

It is the mask i carry to hide my pain. My story is that it helps me to stay connected. If you saw what’s underneath, you’d run screaming. It is hard to connect with The Face since it keeps me … Continue reading

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Dance of Acceptance

The same thing happened last year: I was super excited about an annual folk dance festival that takes place the two days after Thanksgiving. I was excited, planning to be there the whole time – until it was time to … Continue reading

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Undermining myself

I had trouble getting out of bed this morning. Yes, there was a part of me who simply enjoyed luxuriating in the softness and warmth of the bed – getting my need for touch met. I knew the surrounding sense … Continue reading

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What is “community” anyways?

The first question Sarah asked in response to my rant about how difficult i am finding it to build community: What kind of community are you trying to build? Good question! As a spinster by choice, a woman who weaves … Continue reading

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Lonely Atheist…

I am noticing just how lonely i am feeling right now – reacting to an email exchange i had within a now virtual community with people i’ve deeply connected with when we spend 9 days together. I am posting this … Continue reading

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